Evolution.
Of Relations.
Strange it is. To see that Charles Darwin seems applicable here too.
Some relations have to die 'coz they lack the ingredients of survival.
And the ones which last, are the truest.
And the ones which flourish, are the ones best suited for you.
Suitability lies in the soul.
And in the soul's screening for similar souls, all by themselves, and by experience- bitter or sweet.
Sadly, we do not have 'The Sorting Hat' to divide us into the Gryffindors and the Slytherins.
Wish people could put their self into shelves!! :D
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Random musings on friends which once seemed the companions for life, to turn into the meany-stare-givers on the channel-gates!!
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Tele says: Why do the girls lack trueness (in friendship) ??
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10 comments:
yeah even i hav wondered that..
with relationships,one can nvr say!
hey telly,, relationships are not living objects, they do not breath, don't eat the food,, u cant apply darwinism thoroughly on relationship,,
relationship is feeling, most of the time this feeling gives happiness,,,
few people put materialistic things (eg jewellery, gifts, money ) before feelings of happiness, but in my opinion feeling shud be the first priority ,, and other shud eb the consequence of this feeling,,
i can read Harrison whole day becoz i hav a good feeling attached to it,, and getting good amrks in exam is the consequence of this feeling,,,
if the relationship is giving happiness,, then doesnt matter weather its strong or waek,, it must survive,,
@ Magus
I wish the girly camaraderie could last longer than they do!! Guy's have the trueness in friendship!!
(Just a silly observation!!)
@ Neal
Hey, Agreed that they aren't living objects and these are the ones which give us happiness.
But, i hope you also accept that not every relation lasts. Some do have to terminate, for the reason that they no longer give happiness.
It is about this phenomenon in life that I wrote upon.
Some die, some stay for sometime, and some last for a lifetime.
-And here fittest = happiness in a relation!!
If happiness remains, the relation survives!!
PS: Good to see you here. :)
So apt! I like the bit about flourishing relationships. Some relationships do tend to flourish despite the odds, dont they?
Its why I think you should not hang on too much of yourself on a relationship you know is fast fading...
Happy Friendship Day!!! :D :D
what ever you are saying is more related to girl -boy relationship, infact its true also
but word "relationship" for me include many other things,
we all are kids to give more comments on such vast topic,
till now in our life we mainly experienced books, sports and family relationships,, invariably these relationships always bring happiness and fame.
happy frndship day to you also.
TJ :-)
Awesome post!!
@Beauty and the BEast -
So true...some so flourish despite all odds and differences!! :)
btw, THIS is the wisdom of life you share with us!! -
'Its why I think you should not hang on too much of yourself on a relationship you know is fast fading...'
@ Neal-
No, i m not talking abt the girl-boy relationship!!
happiness exists in friendship too!! And, it sometimes vanishes, too!!
*Guys won't understand this equation, coz this is seen exclusively in girl-girl frndship!!
Happy Friendship's Day to you too!!
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Happy Friendship's day, Beauty!! :)
@ vidhudil
Thanks for checking up the blog!! ;)
I thot, u wud be still believing my promise to not blog again! ;)
tc...
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